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Developing Open Communication -
Be Proactive!
Both first time acquaintances and old friends from home will need to take time to talk about issues that will impact your time together. Open and honest communication will help you to negotiate your needs, to accept differences in values and lifestyles, and to reach mutual compromise when necessary. It is commonly known that Berkeley is a culturally diverse environment. Because of the many different cultural perspectives, there is tremendous potential for learning and personal growth, not only about yourself, but also about your roommate(s) and neighbors. There is also the potential for misunderstanding. We are all going to make mistakes and no one is expected to be perfect. Talking about your background from your perspective, while also listening to your roommate(s) and neighbors, will help set the stage for understanding one another.

Tips For Living in a Multi Cultural Environment
Be aware of the assumptions and generalizations you make about people. We all make generalizations and they are necessary in order for us to approach new situations. When our generalizations become fixed or rigid, despite new evidence to the contrary, they become stereotypes. Acting on stereotypes often breaks down communication and can set up barriers between you and your neighbors.